Top Tips For New Lovers
The past couple of years have been a burden on us all and one thing that has been lacking most in society is the comfort of human touch. There may be many reasons why you wish to book a high class escort, such as the following:
Perhaps you have been celibate for quite some time and have decided to end your dry spell and what better way than with an experienced, confident lover;
Perhaps intimacy has been lacking in your life and you long to have a beautiful woman in your arms entirely focused on you and your needs;
Perhaps you are tired of the trials and tribulations of online dating and wish to meet a gorgeous woman with guaranteed intimacy;
Perhaps you are a couple and want to spice up your love life with a ménage a trois without any drama;
Or perhaps you are a woman and wish to finally explore your lady loving side.
Whatever the reason may be, my darling, I may just be the perfect companion for you. I adore meeting new clients that are new to this sensual and intoxicating industry. To help secure the most exquisite experience of your life, I have compiled a number of tips for new-cummers that you may find useful in your quest.
Please note that these tips reflect booking an appointment with myself, other providers’ terms and conditions may vary.
First Impressions Matter
When it comes to the first line of communication, I prefer contact via email or my booking form. Information on what I request from initial contact can be found here. How will you stand out amongst the diatribe of timewasters? The academic in me recommends that your initial enquiry be at least three sentences long to pique my interest and garner a response. On the other hand, I do not wish to read an entire monologue (unless it comes with a gift voucher to help sweeten the deal).
Deposits Are Essential
As I run a professional business, deposits are essential for a number of reasons. First, it shows you are genuine and committed to us meeting. Second, this is for my safety as address details will not be disclosed without a deposit. Third, cancellations and no shows are rife at the moment, so a deposit ensures that my time is not completely wasted if last minute cancellations occur.
Further details on my deposit policy can be found on my Etiquette page.
Etiquette
It is worthwhile to highlight that you become familiar with my terms and conditions listed on my Etiquette page before getting in contact. Whilst I am happy to answer specific queries regarding our upcoming date, a lot of information can be found on this website. A wise person reads and I do not enjoy having to repeat myself.
Do Not Worry, Nerves Are Expected
Nerves are completely understandable as this may be the first time you have been in the private company of a beautiful woman. Rest assured, I am very skilled at easing those nervous shakes into blissful shudders.
However, if immediate intimacy is a bit too daunting, we can always take time to get to know each other outside of the bedroom first. For instance, over lunch or dinner at a luxurious and intimate restaurant, or perhaps enjoying a cocktail in a dimly lit and secluded bar, or even a beautiful walk in nature with my dog. You will be more than eager to get some alone time after you get to know me a little, catching the cheeky glint in my pretty eyes and watching my luscious and ever so kissable lips.
Scrub Up Well Beforehand
Consider this a first date and spend some time in grooming and personal hygiene shortly before our play date. If you are visiting me, you are welcome to use the shower once you arrive (mouthwash and toiletries also available). Before every lover, I spend a significant amount of time preparing in order to smell scrumptious and look even more delectable, so I expect the same in return.
Whilst I do not mind soft stubble and beards, I prefer clean shaven gentleman as my lips are very sensitive and can be rubbed raw from spikey stubble, which is an ouchie I do not enjoy. So if your face resembles a jaggy hedgehog, I’m afraid kisses will have to be limited.
If you wish to touch me in the most intimate of areas (and I really hope you do) please make sure that your nails are trimmed and filed shortly before our date.
What I Will Be Wearing
When you first lay eyes on me I will be wearing something that flatters my gorgeous curves. I almost always wear stockings unless you specify otherwise.
If we have arranged for an outcall booking in which I visit you, I will dress fairly casual depending on where we are meeting. Once I am with you and money matters have been exchanged I will excuse myself to the bathroom and get changed into something much more tantalising. If there is a certain outfit you desire from my gallery, please do let me know in advance of our meeting.
Money Matters
When we first meet, I like to get business over as quickly as possible, so please have my payment in cash ready in an envelope, or a gift bag if we are meeting in public. I will not engage in any intimate activities until I have received payment.
If you wish to pay via bank transfer this needs to be processed at least two hours before arrival or else we will have to rearrange and a further deposit will be required.
Play Time
You can find a list of some of the intimate delights I enjoy over on my Pleasures page. As a flame-haired Temptress, my expertise lies in pleasure both giving and receiving, whilst getting lost in the moment. You will also find that I am a very sensitive and responsive lover.
Furthermore, I recommend having a look over my limits as there are some things I will not accommodate. If at any time I feel you are being rude, aggressive or pushing my boundaries the session will be terminated without refund.
Regarding timings, if you wish to extend please ensure that you have the additional funds at the beginning of our date. It is best to give me advance notice as sometimes I will be unable to extend due to other commitments. If you wish to end our session for whatever reason earlier than arranged, there will be no refund or discount.
Sexual Health
I take my sexual health very seriously and get a full check up (oral, vaginal and anal swabs plus bloods taken) every 12 weeks. All intercourse has to be protected with a condom. I will have a variety of condoms with me to find something comfortable for you. There are also a selection of flavoured dental dams within my kit.
If this will be your first time having intercourse using a condom in a while, it is recommended you practice wearing one before we meet so that you do not experience stage fright. Of course, there is absolutely no pressure if you cannot climax as I will most likely have plenty of orgasms for both of us! Sometimes it is more about the journey rather than the destination.
BDSM Activities
If you wish to explore any BDSM activities, this must be communicated to me beforehand. I always advise that first meetings be more on the gentle side as we explore and get to know each other. Please note I no longer offer submissive services.
But if you wish for me to take control then I am more than happy to guide you in pleasing a Queen and discovering limitless euphoria together. I do not offer pain or humiliation services as it is not in my nature to belittle or cause harm; I am much more of a lover than a fighter, darling.
A safeword will be decided before we play and must be respected at all times.
So have I tempted you?
If I have piqued your interest and you are ready to take the next step, please do get in touch so we can plan our upcoming date together.
I am very excited to hear from you!
